Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Femme of the week ♥

 

Name: SinfullyGrinch
Age:21
Status: Single
Bio: I am Jersey raised and bred. I attended The Art Institute in NY
for fashion design and sketching. I wear my art as an outfit and all
over my skin, hand drawing my tattoos. Although I have a knack for art
I discovered my passion is medicine and healthcare. A year ago I
started my career as a NJ EMT doing 911 response and personal medical
transport. Education is the name of my game and I plan on continuing
education until I take my last breath. I am goal
oriented,determined,and independent femme with the persona of a stud.
I consider myself something like a goofball. Purely a lover and not a
fighter. I have a heart of gold and an old soul. Love is my
kryptonite. I am nothing special but I will never be simply basic.

Contact : www.twitter.com/Sinfullygrinch

Monday, October 5, 2009

Womens Football Association Cup Final

Womens Football Association Cup Final – Monday 4th May 2009: Arsenal Ladies v Sunderland Women at Pride Park Stadium, Derby.

Arsenal Ladies 2 -1 Sunderland Women               

The Bank Holiday win was Arsenal Ladies fourth FA Cup victory in succession. Most football pundits had predicted an Arsenal win however the score line was somewhat unexpected.

Sunderland keeper, Alderton, kept Arsenal at bay until the 32nd minute when Katy Chapman put the Lady ‘Gunners’ ahead. Arsenals second half performance was less than inspired but for a moment of brilliance by midfielder Kim Little as she secured the victory on 90+ 2 minutes.

Having beaten Chelsea Ladies on route to the final, the Sunderland squad managed a 90+ 7 minute consolation goal. Sunderland defender, Bronze, was awarded player of the match and both the goal and the award were much deserved after a fighting display by the northern Division team.

Same-Sex Divorce in Tennessee Revisited

About a week ago, I posted about whether same-sex couples can get a divorce in Tennessee.  I wrote that they could not, and I still have that opinion, based on  Tennessee’s current constitution and statutes.  However, it appears this issue may come to a head in Texas, where a district judge ruled that a gay couple could be divorced, even though Texas will not recognize a marriage between two people of the same sex.

The reason the case in Texas interests me, is because the judge in Texas granted the divorce after finding the Texas law violates the equal protection clause of the federal constitution.

The provision in the Texas constitution that prohibits same-sex marriage is similar (in effect) to the amendment of the Tennessee constitution which limits marriage to one man and one woman.

The decision by the district judge in Texas is not binding on Tennessee, but if a higher court (particularly the U.S. Supreme Court) were to find the law in Texas unconstitutional, it would mean the similar law in Tennessee (as well as many other states) would become ineffective.

The questions isn’t whether or not the law is discriminatory.  There’s no doubt the government is discriminating based on sexual orientation.  The ultimate question that will have to be answered is whether the government’s purpose in reserving marriage to one man and one woman is important enough to justify discriminating against gay and lesbian couples.

This battle is just getting warmed up, and it’s only a matter of time before this issue lands before the U.S. Supreme court.  In fact, the Texas case could be headed that way.  The judge made her ruling on Thursday, and the Attorney General filed a notice of appeal on Friday.

Friday, October 2, 2009

Word to the Wise...

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Judicial Activism and what does it mean to judge? Government 101

Cries of judicaial activisim are raising up in Texas.  But is it really activism?  Perhaps it is good judicial review of an unjust law?
Dallas Judge Shoots Down Texas’ Ban on Gay Marriage – Law Blog – WSJ

Nevertheless let’s look at first our government and then our judicial process – maybe we can come to an informed decision ourselves.

Branches of Government
There are three branches of government (3):  Executive, Legislative, and Judicial.

Executive: the branch of the United States government that is responsible for carrying out the laws wordnetweb.princeton.edu/perl/webwn
Legislative: The branch of government which is concerned with the making of laws
en.wiktionary.org/wiki/legislative_branch
Judicial: the branch of the United States government responsible for the administration of justice
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Focusing in on the last one, it is the duty of a judge to administer justice.

Justice:

  • the quality of being just or fair
  • judgment involved in the determination of rights and the assignment of rewards and punishments
  • judge: a public official authorized to decide questions brought before a court of justice
  • Department of Justice: the United States federal department responsible for enforcing federal laws (including the enforcement of all civil rights legislation); created in 1870
    wordnetweb.princeton.edu/perl/webwn


So how does a judge administer justice?

The Judicial Process

Article III of the Constitution of the United States guarantees that every person (note the word every) accused of wrongdoing has the right to a fair trial before a competent judge and a jury of one’s peers.

The Fourth, Fifth, and Sixth Amendments to the Constitution provide additional protections for those accused of a crime. These include:

  • A guarantee that no person shall be deprived of life, liberty, or property without the due process of law
  • Protection against being tried for the same crime twice (”double jeopardy”)
  • The right to a speedy trial by an impartial jury
  • The right to cross-examine witnesses, and to call witnesses to support their case
  • The right to legal representation
  • The right to avoid self-incrimination
  • Protection from excessive bail, excessive fines, and cruel and unusual punishments

For this case, the type of court is relevant, since it is not a criminal case but a family dispute.  The participants in the legal actions are married and must seek out resolution in a family court.

Family Court

A separate court or a separate division of the regular state trial court, that considers only cases involving family-related issues, which could include divorce, child custody and support, guardianship, adoption, and the issuance of restraining orders in domestic violence cases.

Problem?

According to the voters and to the Texas state constitution, marriage is only defined as between a man and a woman.  However, the rules of our country state we all have equal protection.

So what does that mean?

“The Equal Protection Clause, part of the Fourteenth Amendment to the United States Constitution, provides that “(n)o state shall … deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws”.[1] The Equal Protection Clause can be seen as an attempt to secure the promise of the United States’ professed commitment to the proposition that “all men are created equal“[2] by empowering the judiciary to enforce that principle against the states.”

This is very important.  Because these men, were legally married outside of Texas, but with the way the law is now their marriage was null and void upon stepping on Texas soil and living there.  By not protecting these men and their right to resolve a judicial dispute, they are not being given equal protection.  In doing so, the laws and the state are saying, without words, that these men are not equal to every other citizen in the state of Texas or beyond.

Not equal. (please make a note – this is important)

BUT we are guaranteed by the constitution of the united states that ALL men are created equal and that all citizens will have equal protection…. and THAT my friends is just one very big reason why denying gay and lesbian adults the right to marry is deplorable.  They are citizens, they are just as productive as their heterosexual neighbors, they are not second class – there is NO compelling evidence that orientation will lead to any number of other ridiculous and heinous acts.  There is also no compelling state interest in preventing such contracts and the dissolution there of should they choose.

Conclusion
My conclusion, the judge is simply calling out an unjust law and using common judicial sense and supporting national law to do so.  Which is her JOB… in making sure the courts administer justice.

I hope these men win their divorce and people take a long hard look at why they have decided to exclude a group from equal protection and equal application of the law.

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Thursday, October 1, 2009

Coming Out

I dont exactly have a coming out story. My Mother caught me making out with my “best friend” when I was 12 and told my father. With all my brothers and sisters there she simply said….do you like girls? I was intimidated by the question even though there was no malice in it whatsoever. Alls I could make myself do was shrug my shoulders and walk away from the accusation. They were highly supportive and never mentioned it again except for a few hinted jokes to try and make me comfortable. I was beside myself. I wasn’t quite ready to define that part of me yet.  I was unsure and scared. I kept dating boys and went so far as to be married to my high school sweetheart….all the while sleeping with every beautiful woman I could get my hands on. I knew there was nothing better than the feel of a woman….yet still couldn’t get myself to say I was gay, I am gay. My extended family is highly homophobic. I worried too much then about being an outcast and being talked about. I was scared. Then my time came when I joined the army (how cliche). I met an amazing girl and was instantly infatuated with her in more ways than sexual. I progressed as I went through all my training. I realized I have always been gay, a lesbian. I enjoy the company of my male friends and mistook that for attraction. Counting all the times I’ve snuck out to the gay bar and slept around with woman I decided enough was enough. I needed to be me and happy at all costs. To bad it took so long because there I was with and asshole husband, four kids and no future. I was afraid. When I returned home from all of my training I came out to my best friend….as having no gender preference. A small lie but easier to see how it would go with that instead of the full blow. My cousin of course is my best friend and has known since we were like 5, he’s also gay and is my go to person for everything! Unknowing to him he gave me strength to proceed. I told everyone important to me and everyone has for the most part accepted who I am. Some think it’s a phase and others really dont care to judge. I joined to dating websites to get out there and meet more people who could actually remember me when they were sober the next day instead of hitting up all the bars. I have met and am now living with the most amazing woman. I have never been so happy and in love. She accepts everything about and is my heart and soul. So I guess you could say I am still in the coming out process…but all the people who matter know and I’m not ashamed of who I am because I am the same person I have always been, everyone sees that and I’m proud of my friends and family. I sympathize with those who can’t open their hearts. I only hope it gets easier for younger kids to be who they are as soon as they realize it.

 

I have never been so sure of myself.

Hello, God, it's me

Hi, God. I know it’s quite morning, but I wanna ask you some things.

Dear God, I’ve been thinking a lot about why do women get with men and men get with women, when it would be so much easier to just go the same way.

You know, God, these magazines I’ve been reading lately – the men magazines have a man on the cover and some women in the inside, while the women magazines have a woman on the cover and a lot of women on the inside (are you trying to tell use something, God?). There was this interesting article about the morning erection, which almost all men are said to have, while women tend to want sex in the evening. Mathematically speaking, this means that a couple should wake up at 2-3 am to have sex. I wonder what gay couples do. In The L word, women woke up very early in the morning and they were too damn smiley for that unappropriate hour. Does this mean they had just gotten laid?

EDIT: Hey, now that I think about it, the Bible says that the Man was made by His looks and similarity. But men have erections every morning. Does this mean…………… ok, God, you can answer me later.

By the way, God (when you’ve finished), how do you explain – to a man – the difference between a pearly shine lipstick and a water shine lipstick? Will he ever care? And, God, if you make women so strong as to endure PMS, period, labour and epillation, why didn’t you give them enough strength so as to open a bottle with bare hands? How come that a woman wants 10 pairs of shoes and a running computer, while the man is happy with 1 pair of sport shoes and 1 pair of trousers, but will die if he doesn’t get that display?

P.S. The ugly truth is new in town (see review made by Lore here). The town of “Men are from Mars, women are from Venus” movies. Don’t waste money to see it. Katherine Heigl’s boobs look the same on your home display. Better watch When Harry met Sally. Meg Ryan is delicious, especially in this scene:

Pardon my unclarity, God, it’s just too damn morning.